The title of this post, has been sitting as a draft, on this computer for 48 hours.
It’s not easy to write about someone who’s close to my heart but soon will not be around us anymore. It’s my Mum. At the beginning of this week she could conquer the world, if she wanted, full op life and lust for a long weekend abroad… And on the travel-day itself no lust, not even for life anymore.
I just don’t know what to say or write.
Just the way she talks about dying and that enough is enough brings a strain on my Dad and the rest of us too. They’ve been together for 60 years, married for almost 58. I’m glad my big Sis is around at the moment since I’m not allowed to take care of her, wash her or wipe her bum. Also my younger sister is a big help, it’s close to her old job when she was still a nurse, instead of being in higher management at the same hospital.
My mentally handicapped brother knows she’s sick, but doesn’t know how bad it is. How do you explain that to a man of 51 with the mind of a ten-year old. We know how death in the family always shakes him up.
As long as she’s around we try to talk about the good times we had, sharing memories…
It must be hard for everyone Peter.
Peter says: It is, but as brothers and sisters and my dad, it brings us closer.
Oh Peter, I am so sad for your family. Thank you for letting us know that your Mother is having such a difficult time. You all will be in my prayers. (all ya’all) {{{{hugs}}}}
Peter says: Thanks, Mary Beth.
Oh, I’m so sorry. Do please keep us posted.
Peter says: Thanks, Rick
Some struggles are worse than others and it’s good to know that this situation has brought you all closer as a family.
Prayers ascend for you and your family.
Thank you for sharing this most painful experience with us. Keep us posted as you feel led.
Peter says: Thanks, W.
Such sad news. Please remember to take care of yourself while you’re taking care of everyone else.
Peter says: Thanks, Sean I’ll keep that in mind.
My prayers go out to you and to your whole family. It is obviously a tough and complicated situation. May you find joy, strength, and, yes, life itself in renewing and remembering times together. Much love is going out to you all!
Thanks, R.